The
Ravena-Coeymans-Selkirk School District and the Bethlehem and
Coeymans communities have lost a special volunteer who dedicated
her life to serving children, her church and others in need.
Eighty-eight-year old Marion Fross passed away on Saturday, May
3, 2008 with her family at her side, but her legacy of selfless
community service lives on.
In 2006
Marion received a Volunteer Award from Albany County Executive
Michael Breslin to recognize many years of service to the
community and a Senior Lifetime Achievement Award from the
Capital District Senior Issues Forum, yet remained humble in
spite of a lifetime of accomplishments. She grew up in Yonkers,
New York where her parents provided piano lessons for her and
instilled in her a lifetime love of music. She earned an
undergraduate degree in history and Latin at Mount Holyoke
College and a graduate degree in history and American Literature
from Cornell University after which she and her husband Arthur
Fross raised six children. Once her children were enrolled in
elementary school, she began serving the Bethlehem and
Ravena-Coeymans-Selkirk School Districts as a substitute teacher
and did not officially retire until she was 80 years old.
Marion was
involved in countless organizations over a forty-year period,
but considered children “her first love.” For the past eight
years Marion was a dedicated volunteer for the Seniors Teaching
and Reaching Out to Students (STARS) Program, an
intergenerational program that enabled her to continue working
with preschool students in her daughter Susan Parker’s classroom
at the A.W. Becker Elementary School in Selkirk. She
contributed more than 350 hours of service to the STARS Program
during the 2004-05 school year and continued to volunteer until
her health declined recently. Featured in a 2006 Times Union
article, she said, “I’ve seen a lot of kids over the years
and every time I sit down with them, I try to teach them
something new. It makes you feel good to have a youngster come
up and hug you and to know that you’re needed.”
In addition
to the STARS Program, Marion was very active in the South
Bethlehem United Methodist Church. She was the Sunday school
piano player for more than forty years, a church organist and
also held numerous administrative posts at her church. She
traveled twice to Puerto Rico with a church group to help build
a church and later redecorate it. She was a 4-H leader for 21
years, teaching her students to make items for nursing home
residents and taking them to visit a local nursing home where
she would bring a portable organ to play while the students
performed sing-a-longs for the residents.
Marion
explained her tireless volunteerism simply by saying, “I love
being able to help others. It gives me a sense of purpose.”
STARS Program Director Karen Harmon says that Marion “was one of
our longest-serving volunteers who helped make the STARS Program
the success it is today. She was one of the most selfless
persons I have ever met. We all should aspire to give back to
the community the way she did.” Marion served as a role model
not only for the school children who loved her so, but for the
many adults whose lives she touched in our local communities and
beyond.